
#ringfail
While there are so many things inherently beautiful about a wedding (the love, the joy, the open bar), they're also breeding grounds for myriad 'don'ts'. Emotions are heightened and people genuinely want to do their best but sometimes it all gets a little lost in translation. Take wedding guests; I mean, how many times have you seen it all go sideways when you combine a woman (usually the crazy aunt, just sayin'), in a tight dress, wearing a pair of heels 2 inches too high, after too many glasses of Sauvignon, with a bad deejay prone to spells of the dreaded Greased Lightning medley. Up goes the skirt, off go the shoes, and suddenly you're more familiar with Aunt Lena than you ever hoped to be.
I've compiled a list of basic rules to follow when searching for that perfect outfit for your next summer wedding. Keep these tips in mind and you'll be two steps ahead of the rest of the guest list:
WHAT (NOT) TO WEAR TO A WEDDING:
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Never wear white (or off-white or cream or écru). This is a rule by which everyone at the wedding should abide, except, of course, for the blushing bride.
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Avoid all-black dresses, elegant and chic as they might be. Black tends to look too funerial and this, my friends, is the happiest of occasions. If you do wear black, be sure to keep it celebratory with feathers, frills or other playful embellishments. A bright clutch or earrings will also brighten things up.
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Choose killer shoes that won't kill your feet. You do NOT want to be that barefoot girl on the dancefloor, no matter how low-key the wedding might be.
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Avoid anything too tight, too short, or too cleavage-exposing - this is a wedding, not a nightclub.
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This probably doesn't need to be said but no jeans, please.
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Find out what colour dresses the bridesmaids are wearing, then make sure your dress doesn't look exactly like them, especially if you've been left out of the wedding party.
Last, but certainly not least, have FUN! As a wedding guest, you can (and should) step out of your comfort zone. Assuming the bride isn't a complete bridezilla, most women want their guests to look and feel amazing on their special day. I've put together 5 fun looks for you to try out for your next summer wedding.
Click on the slideshow below to get inspired x
1. Dare to go BRIGHT: Floral Chiffon Maxi, $198, Le Château; Trapezoid Earrings, $9.95, Le Château; Ankle Strap Sandals, $59.95, Le Château; Browline Sunglasses, $12, ALDO
2. Dare to be BOLD: Eyelet Flare Dress, $49.95, American Eagle; Envelope Clutch, $35, ALDO; Colour-Blocked Sandal, $69.99, Sears; Cat-Eye Sunglasses, $12, ALDO
3. Dare to be a little EDGY: Cut-Out Belt, $9.95, Le Château; Coral Linen-Blend Clutch, $29.95, Le Château; Ankle-Strap Sandal, $59.95, Le Château; Chiffon Print Dress, $169.95, Le Château; Gemstone Drop Earrings, $15, Le Château
4. Dare to do SHINY: Chiffon Colour-Block Dress, $88, RW&CO.; Silver Clutch, $40, ALDO; Silver Strappy Sandals, $80, ALDO; Basic Pashmina, $15, Le Château; Jaguar Statement Ring, $12, ALDO
5. Dare to go HI-LOW: Trapezoid Earrings, $18, Le Château; Jeweled Lace Clutch, $49.95, Le Château; Zip-Back Pumps, $80, ALDO; Lancome L'Absolue Nu, $35, Sears; Chiffon Hi-Low Gown, $169.95, Le Château